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Author Archives: Stephen Angbulu

These three tiny goals will 10x your progress in 2023

These three tiny goals will 10x your progress in 2023

It would’ve been fantastic if new years miraculously marked new beginnings.But 2020, 2021 and 2022 remind us that similar things are happening. The timing, circumstances and actors may vary. But a discerning mind will spot the patterns.Global events will continue on their volatile path, and more people will realise just how little they control in […]

Find Your Jar

Find your jar!

During one of my morning meditations, I realised that although we all need help at some point, some people are easier to help than others. Let me tell you a story. In ancient Israel, there lived a widow whose late husband had wracked up a huge pile of debt before he died. The creditor chose […]

The Curse of Familiarity

After facilitating a virtual class one evening, my friend DMed me excitedly sharing how much he’d learned. Though grateful, he told me how pissed he was that I’ve never discussed any of the lessons I taught that night, despite being friends all these years. Seeing the potential for offense, I flipped the conversation into humour […]

You’ve been approaching mentors the wrong way

You’ve Been Approaching Mentors the Wrong Way

“Can you be my mentor?”  “Please mentor me.” “I would love to write like you do. Could you mentor me in writing?” And the flat out request… “would you mentor me or not?” In my short writing journey, I’ve had my fair share of mentor-me DMs. As a protege, I have learned one profound truth; […]

Saying Yes to Everyone Can Cost You Your Life & Career, Here’s Why

Do you often regret saying yes to meetings, engagements and tasks? Things that. if you had the courage to just say no would’ve saved you lots of stress. You’re not alone! In his book, Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less, Greg McKeown shares the story of a Silicon Valley executive who found himself stretched across too many work engagements. Keen […]